My mother-in-law, loved me until my husband put the ring on my finger. when we told her that we were buying a condo, the first thing out of her mouth was.."can you afford it?" then when my husband told her that he was excited that he could relax and not have to do yard work or plowing, she retaliated and said..."well you have to do mine." The thing that bothers me the most about her, is the fact that with everything she does against me, it hurts my husband. No matter what i keep trying to be her friend but she does not think of me as part of the family. She calls my husband when he is at work at least 3 times, but never when he is home because she doesnt want me to answer. He has started to not answer her, and now she is freaking out sending him text messages!...There are many other things that she has done, and not only her, but my husbands sister as well. If anyone can give me some advice that would be great because i am at my wits end. i feel bad that my husband has to be distant from his family, and that she never sees me as part of the family, because it hurts him!!! let me know what you think i should do.